What is Social Graces?

What does Social Graces mean? Webster’s Dictionary defines social as pertaining to society or companionship, and graces as beauty or charm of form, movement or expression. Social Graces would mean beauty or charm of form in the circles of society. Some people move comfortably in social circles, others find it difficult.

It may seem that the ability to exhibit charm and beauty naturally is a gift. One may say that only extroverts feel comfortable entertaining and interacting with others.  Whether you are shy or outgoing, you can learn to be at ease with social graces.

Social graces is not a gift, it is a skill. A skill can be acquired through education and practice. You can learn to walk, sit, serve, and look gracious; but if you don’t feel good about yourself, this will become mechanical and superficial. The difference between entertaining etiquette and exhibiting the spirit of hospitality through social graces is the difference between putting the skills into practice and a desire to serve others with self-assurance. Whatever areas of social weakness you may suffer, they can be strengthened and overcome.

Put your skills to the test and invite someone over this weekend for dinner. It doesn't matter if you serve a three-course meal on your best chine or hot dogs on paper plates. As long as you feel comfortable, and they feel comfortable, you have accomplished the warmth of Social Graces. 

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